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Believe in you

Self belief is something the is bread within each of us from birth.

However for some of us self belief become eroded or even robbed as we move through life.

How do you get it back? What does it mean to not have it? How can it impact you?

All very good questions, but let’s start with the one you probably want answering the most, how can I get my Self Belief back?

My honest answer…?

It’ll take work, some hard, some easy, but most of all you need to address the situation / person and or event that began the downward spiral of belief.

Control, coercion, abuse, mistrust, bullying, anxiety, low mood, depression, addiction and even insomnia can all contribute towards eroding your belief within yourself and your unique ability.

Work with a Therapist, talk to a family member, confide in a dear friend, but you MUST talk with someone. Overcoming your past can only be achieved successfully by confronting head on and taking away its power.

Working with a Therapist can become a financial barrier for many within this world, however there are a lot of FREE services available in every Country.

But in actuality it really doesn’t matter with whom you talk, just please be brave and utter the words, ‘can I have a word?’.

Once you take the power away from the event you free yourself from it’s clutches and in doing so allow yourself room to grow, to become who you’re meant to become.

However perhaps your lack of self worth is simply years of erosion of everything you deem to be worthy?

So I say to you, you’re not a tree, don’t stay where you’ve always been, change what you’re doing. If you’re not happy, change it.

If that change offends others, then that is not your issue, that is theirs. You can only be in charge of you and your life.

Belief comes with the knowledge that you have regained control. Take control of your life, your mind, your soul and your feelings and you will regain belief in yourself.

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Look after your Energy

Some times I feel that a lot of my time professionally is spent educating and passing on simple knowledge to others – and I bloomin’ love it!!

Something that always seems to crop up is talking about taking care of your personal Energy.

What does that mean?

(An Aura is our Energy Field, that extends out from our body. It fluctuates in size depending on many factors including, mood, interaction, physical location and noise)

Well put simply we need to make sure we are regularly clearly our personal Energy.

Very single interaction you have on a daily basis, leaves its mark on your Energy Field (Aura). When you are submerged in a negative environment, you feel it don’t you?

If someone gets on the bus and sits behind you feel that person, and make a judgement based on……??? Based on how their Energy field interacts with yours.

Energy talks…

And it never lies.

That’s why it is so important to have a regular schedule in your diary whereby you visits an Energy Work, a Light Worker, someone who will held rid you of all those negative attachments, help rid you of all that emotional baggage that no longer serves you.

Just as you’d go to a hair dresser to keep you hair in good condition, please please consider keeping your personal Energy in good condition.

It doesn’t serve you…

I see a lot of Clients in my Therapy Room and what a truly amazing bunch they are 😁

We spend a lot of time talking about past actions that still resonate with them today.

My advice is always the same…..

If it doesn’t serve you, you must get rid of it.

We are emotive creatures, who for some unfathomable reason seem to enjoy dragging our past mistakes with us, like a giant bag dragging behind us……!

Then when things are going well in our lives for some unknown reason we take ourselves off, find a nice quiet rock, admire the scenery, then have a good old rummage in that bag.

From the depths of it we drag up something long buried for the simple reason of …….. punishing ourselves! How dare we dream of being even remotely happy…… flippin rude!!!

Yes brain you’re absolutely right, I definitely needed to be reminded of that horrific time at Great Aunt Mildred’s birthday when I walked back into the bar with toilet paper hanging from my undergarments!!!!

Spot on dude!!!

However this doesn’t actually have to be the way!

Energy Work is an answer, Reiki will help you release what no longer serves you, literally and figuratively freeing you for a better today, and room for an amazing tomorrow.

Disease V Dis Ease

Dis Ease in our body can come from many different sources:

~prolonged exposure to high levels of stress

~eating and drinking the wrong food / drinks

~ physical external trauma

~addiction

~being around negative people / situations

And many more

now this dis ease can manifestate in many forms, with quick initial symptoms being, but not exclusively:

– shaking

– palpitations

– blood pressure irregularities

– skin issues

– interruption in sleep pattern

– low mood

– loss of appetite

– increases in appetite

– mood swings

And most startling of all, if the this exposure is prolonged the result is simply

Disease within the body

We are allowing our bodies to be placed almost in a perfect environment for that negativity, heightened emotion and pressure to breed.

Please don’t think we’re saying this is always the case, because it isn’t. However if you place your body under prolonged severe pressure it WILL crumble, taking your physical, mental, emotional and psychological health with it.

Remember it’s not just about going to a gym and working out – that’s great, but it’s not going to look after your whole person.

Please visit a Wellbeing Therapist regularly and seek treatments that will support and sustain your whole being.

Plus it’s a great opportunity for a sleep